Rebirth in the Same City: Claudia’s Story .Claudia, 34 years old.For years she had a stable job, but a life that no longer made her feel proud.What came next wasn’t easy — but it was hers.
“My life no longer represented me.”My job looked good… on paper. But I didn’t.I lived with a knot in my throat.I’d see myself from the outside and didn’t recognize who I was.One day, looking in the mirror, I asked myself:When did I stop making my own decisions?That’s when I knew something had to change.The biggest fear wasn’t leaving. It was staying on autopilot.
What was the hardest part?Accepting that I had no clarity.At 34, people make you believe you should already have emotional and financial stability —as if there were a script to follow.
But there isn’t.Starting over is also moving forward.Social pressure is real.But betraying yourself is even more so.
What kept you going?“The certainty that if I didn’t move, nothing would change.I didn’t know exactly what I wanted —I just knew I couldn’t keep living like that.”
And then life stepped in: it was the next call from HR.Her world collapsed — for a moment.But two weeks later, she understood it had been the push she needed.That’s how her transition began.
Sometimes change starts that way: without a destination.What does being a Dueña mean to you today?“Making small decisions that bring me closer to my own life…even on days when I doubt everything.”
A message for those on the same bridge:Change is scary.But staying the same… is even scarier.We are Dueñas.Of the endings we had to accept.And of the beginnings waiting for us.Claudia is only the first chapter.
We want to hear your story.Are you in transition too?
Tell us.